Thoughts on fall
Fall is perhaps my least favorite season of the year, although after each excessively Michigan winter, I tend to assign that honor to winter instead. But still. Fall. It means the coming of winter. It means the days are getting shorter and that I often drive home from work in the dark. It means rain, cold, wind. Sure, the changing colors are pretty, but once the leaves hit the ground, the smell of rotting permeates. I wonder now how I ever used to find enjoyment in throwing my body into big, soggy piles of them.
Fall has two of my least favorite holidays (though in my mind only one actually counts as a holiday): Halloween and Sweetest Day. I blogged last week about Halloween costumes, but the truth is, I like planning Halloween costumes more than I like wearing them. The whole dressing up thing feels a bit silly to me, a bit juvenile. And let’s be honest: Sweetest Day is one of the stupidest things created by America. I remember my freshman year of college when my then-boyfriend asked me what I wanted for Sweetest Day and I said nothing, told him it was nothing but a money-making Hallmark holiday. He looked at me for a moment then finally asked, “Is that girl-speak for ‘get me something or you die’?” I hate the idea that, as women, we’re seen to be that fickle, that we’re expected to want (need?) things things things to show affection. If it weren’t for Thanksgiving, fall would have nothing of interest for me when it came to celebrations. But seriously, who doesn’t love a holiday that is, in its modern incarnation, about eating? Read more »


